What are positive affirmations?

Positive affirmations are statements that you say to yourself repeatedly, usually in the present tense, with the aim of building positive self-belief and creating a positive mindset. The purpose of positive affirmations is to help you focus on positive aspects of yourself and your life, and to reprogram negative self-talk or limiting beliefs that may be holding you back. Basically, POSITIVE THINKING.

How can positive affirmations help kids?

They are quite popular with adults in the self-help space, but kids can benefit from positive affirmations just as much! How? Here are a few ways:

Positive affirmations can be a powerful tool to help children build self-confidence, self-esteem, and a positive mindset. Here are some ways positive affirmations can help kids:

1. Build self-belief: help develop a positive self-image by focusing on their strengths and abilities, and by teaching them to believe in themselves.
2. Boost resilience: help build resilience by teaching them to focus on positive aspects of their life and to overcome obstacles and challenges.
3. Manage stress and anxiety: help manage stress and anxiety by providing a positive framework for their thoughts and emotions, and by helping them develop coping strategies.
4. Improve academic performance: help develop a growth mindset by encouraging them to believe in their abilities and to see challenges as opportunities for growth.
5. Foster positive relationships: help establish positive relationships with others by encouraging them to treat themselves and others with kindness, compassion, and respect.

That is why, being the awesome aunt that you are, having these in your arsenal is a must. This article is focused on dealing with bullying, but these affirmations can be applied to many other situations.

50 positive affirmations against bullying for kids

I’ve broken down the 50 affirmations into groups of 10 and provided a printable version for each group—which will go perfectly on your nieces’/nephews’ wall.

1. I am worthy of respect and kindness.
2. I deserve to be treated with dignity and compassion.
3. My differences make me unique and special.
4. I am strong and capable of overcoming any challenge.
5. I am loved and appreciated for who I am.
6. I choose to surround myself with positive and supportive people.
7. I refuse to let anyone else define my worth.
8. I am confident in my abilities and talents.
9. I have the power to stand up to bullies and advocate for myself.
10. I am deserving of a safe and peaceful environment.

11. I choose to forgive those who have hurt me, but I will not forget.
12. I am proud of who I am and what I stand for.
13. I will not let bullies control my thoughts or actions.
14. I am deserving of happiness and joy in my life.
15. I choose to focus on the good in myself and others.
16. I will not allow anyone to make me feel inferior or ashamed.
17. I am deserving of respect and consideration.
18. I have a right to express my feelings and opinions without fear of retribution.
19. I choose to be kind and compassionate to myself and others.
20. I am worthy of a life free from fear and intimidation.

21. I am deserving of love, acceptance, and understanding.
22. I choose to believe in myself and my abilities.
23. I am a valuable and important member of my community.
24. I refuse to let the opinions of bullies affect how I see myself.
25. I am capable of creating positive change in the world.
26. I choose to focus on my strengths rather than my weaknesses.
27. I am resilient and can bounce back from any adversity.
28. I am empowered to take control of my life and my experiences.
29. I am deserving of respect and kindness from everyone in my life.
30. I choose to surround myself with people who uplift and support me.

31. I am confident in my ability to make decisions that serve my best interests.
32. I am worthy of a life free from fear and intimidation.
33. I choose to let go of negative thoughts and emotions and embrace positivity.
34. I am deserving of a safe and secure environment to live and thrive in.
35. I am capable of achieving my goals and dreams.
36. I have the right to stand up for myself and advocate for my needs.
37. I am deserving of forgiveness and compassion, both for myself and others.
38. I choose to focus on my own growth and development, rather than comparing myself to others.
39. I am a unique and special individual, with my own strengths and talents.
40. I choose to treat myself and others with kindness, compassion, and respect.

41. I am worthy of love and acceptance just the way I am.
42. I am capable of overcoming any obstacle that comes my way.
43. I choose to believe in myself and my abilities to succeed.
44. I am deserving of a life filled with happiness, joy, and peace.
45. I am surrounded by people who support and encourage me.
46. I have the power to create a positive and fulfilling life for myself.
47. I choose to focus on the present moment and let go of past hurts.
48. I am strong and resilient, even in the face of adversity.
49. I am deserving of respect and consideration from everyone I encounter.
50. I choose to treat myself with kindness, compassion, and understanding, just as I would treat a dear friend.

I hope you find some in this list that will help your nieces/nephews with whatever situation they’re facing.

Got affirmations of your own against bullying? Let’s share!

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What is bullying?

Bullying refers to repeated aggressive behavior by an individual or a group towards someone who is perceived as weaker or vulnerable. Bullying can take many forms, including physical, verbal, and psychological abuse. It often involves an imbalance of power, where the bully has more social status, physical strength, or other advantages over the victim.

Examples of bullying

There are many examples of bullying, and it can take many different forms. Here are some common examples of bullying:

1. Verbal bullying: This involves using words to hurt or humiliate someone, such as name-calling, teasing, insults, or threats.
2. Physical bullying: This involves using physical force to intimidate or harm someone, such as hitting, pushing, or kicking.
3. Social bullying: This involves excluding someone from a group, spreading rumors or gossip about them, or embarrassing them in public.
4. Cyberbullying: This involves using technology, such as social media, text messages, or email, to harass, threaten, or humiliate someone.
5. Sexual bullying: This involves making inappropriate sexual comments, touching, or gestures towards someone without their consent.
6. Racial or cultural bullying: This involves making derogatory comments or gestures towards someone based on their race or culture.

It is important to note that these are just a few examples of bullying and that bullying can take many other forms as well.

Children and bullying

Kids are particularly vulnerable to bullying, as they are still developing their social skills, self-esteem, and emotional regulation. Bullying can have serious and long-lasting effects on children’s mental health and well-being, impacting their academic performance, social relationships, and overall quality of life.

Children who are bullied may experience a range of negative emotions, such as fear, anxiety, shame, and sadness. They may also develop low self-esteem, difficulty trusting others, and social isolation. In some cases, bullying can lead to physical harm, such as injuries from physical violence or self-harm due to depression or suicidal thoughts.

It is important for parents, educators, and caregivers—AUNTS, that’s us!— to be aware of the signs of bullying and to take steps to prevent and address it. This may include teaching children empathy and kindness, promoting positive social interactions, providing safe and supportive environments, and intervening when bullying behavior is observed. It is also important to seek professional help if a child is experiencing severe or persistent bullying, as they may need counseling or other forms of support to cope with the effects of bullying.

How to talk to kids about bullying

To my knowledge, my nephews have not been on the receiving end—at least not directly. That’s not to say it’s never going to happen. I am particularly concerned with the second oldest since he’s starting high school soon. And we all know how mean high school kids can be!

Talking to kids about bullying is an important way to help prevent and address this behavior. Here are some tips on how to talk to kids about bullying:

1. Start the conversation early: It’s never too early to start talking to kids about bullying. Even young children can understand the concepts of kindness, respect, and empathy. In fact, they might understand these concepts better than some adults!
2. Use age-appropriate language: Use language that is appropriate for your nieces’ and nephews’ age and developmental level. Younger children may need simpler explanations, while older children may be able to handle more complex discussions.
3. Be open and non-judgmental: Make sure kids feel comfortable talking to you about bullying. Be open and non-judgmental, and let them know that it’s okay to ask questions and express their feelings.
4. Define bullying: Help your niece and/or nephew understand what bullying is and what it looks like. Use specific examples and ask them if they have ever witnessed or experienced bullying themselves.
5. Discuss the impact of bullying: Talk about the negative impact of bullying on both the victim and the bully. Help them understand that bullying is never okay and can cause serious harm to others.
6. Teach empathy and respect: Encourage your niece and/or nephew to be kind, empathetic, and respectful towards others. Teach them to value diversity and to treat others the way they would like to be treated.
7. Encourage reporting: Let the kids know that it’s important to report bullying behavior to a trusted adult, such as a teacher, parent, or school counselor. Assure them that they will not get in trouble for reporting bullying.
8. Practice positive behavior: Model positive behavior yourself and encourage your nieces and nephews to practice positive behaviors, such as standing up for others and being a good friend.

By having open and honest conversations about bullying, you can help kids develop the skills and awareness they need to prevent and address this harmful behavior.

Anti-bullying resources

There are many resources available for individuals and organizations who want to prevent and address bullying. Here are some examples:

1. StopBullying.gov: This is a website run by the U.S. government that provides information and resources on bullying prevention and response for parents, educators, and other professionals.
2. PACER’s National Bullying Prevention Center: This organization offers a variety of resources, including educational materials, support groups, and advocacy initiatives to prevent bullying and promote inclusion and acceptance.
3. Stomp Out Bullying: This organization provides resources and support to prevent bullying, cyberbullying, and other forms of abuse among children and teenagers.
4. The Trevor Project: This is a national organization that provides crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to LGBTQ+ youth who may be experiencing bullying or other forms of discrimination.
5. GLSEN: This organization works to create safe and inclusive schools for LGBTQ+ students through research, policy advocacy, and educational resources.
6. The Bully Project: This organization offers resources and support to prevent bullying and empower students to take action against bullying in their communities.

These are just a few examples of the many resources available to prevent and address bullying. It’s important to find the resources that work best for your needs and to take action to create safe and inclusive environments for all individuals.

How do you talk to kids about bullying? It all goes back to having a solid relationship with your nieces and nephews! Otherwise, you might never even get to the point where you can talk to them about it, or even if you do, it might not warrant to anything. Then again, if you’re the awesome aunt I think you are, you won’t have to worry about this!

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